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Good people are always attracted with each other 你若优秀,清风自来

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Good people are always attracted with each other

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Chinese writer Zhang xiaoxian once defined youth as saying that when you own the smooth skin and good figure, you usually have no power and money. Absolutely, power and money wouldn't come with the whelk on your face. This is a very simple truth, you can't always get everything you want, but now I want you to imagine, if you have money and power when you are young, what will be like.

Jenny gave us her own answer. Jenny is a beautiful high school girl. She had a good talent in playing the violin but she was a little rebellious. On a rainy day, she came across a handsome and elegant gentleman-David, and after that, David began to have several appointment with Jenny. He took her to various fancy places for entertainment and had a good trip in Paris which is the girl's dream place. Jenny just fell in love

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Good people are always attracted with each other

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Chinese writer Zhang xiaoxian once defined youth as saying that when you own the smooth skin and good figure, you usually have no power and money. Absolutely, power and money wouldn't come with the whelk on your face. This is a very simple truth, you can't always get everything you want, but now I want you to imagine, if you have money and power when you are young, what will be like.

Jenny gave us her own answer. Jenny is a beautiful high school girl. She had a good talent in playing the violin but she was a little rebellious. On a rainy day, she came across a handsome and elegant gentleman-David, and after that, David began to have several appointment with Jenny. He took her to various fancy places for entertainment and had a good trip in Paris which is the girl's dream place. Jenny just fell in love with this middle-aged gentleman. But when Jenny gave up her studies, gave up her faith and decided to be with him, she was disappointed to find out that he was a married man. Luckily, Jenny made a sincere apology to the teacher who had been contradicted, and resumed her dream and faith. At last, she admitted to the ideal university, had a same age boyfriend and made their own efforts to live in Paris.

Everything around you could become a temptation when you need to get the everything you want by your own hard work.Jenny in the film is not resisting the temptation. When you are at the age which you should strive to enrich yourself, do not choose to enjoy ease. Perhaps some people believe something like Jenny's father "We send you to school is to let you have a better life, but now ,that man is able to bring you these things, so we will not oppose you drop out of school." This is actually a reflection of an abnormal view of mate choice. Read well or marry well? I think different people have their own view, in my opinion, during the process of growth, only when we are continuously through own efforts, by modifying our mistakes to approach the ideal of ourselves, can we find Mr.Right. Good people are attracted to each other. I also agree that gook-looking girl is another way to show good, but if you just depend on young age and beautiful looking to find your Mr.Right, I think it is a gamble, the price is precious youth. So, there is no shortcut to success, only when we are hard enough to make ourselves good enough to shine, it is possible for us to get the gift of our dreams, perhaps love, or career.

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张小娴曾经这样定义青春“你拥有吹弹可破的皮肤和没有赘肉的身体,却没有金钱和权力。这两样东西,通常也不会跟青春痘一起到来”。鱼与熊掌不可兼得,那么你设想过,这二者同时兼有时,会是什么样的呢?

成长教育中那个拉大提琴优雅的珍妮给了我们答案。珍妮是一个漂亮优秀的女高中生,内心有些叛逆。在一个下雨天,她偶遇了一位帅气儒雅的大叔大卫,从那之后,大卫开始追求珍妮,带她出入各种高档场所,去巴黎街头散步。交往过程中,大叔不俗的谈吐,相投的兴趣,丰厚的资金让珍妮不顾一切的喜欢上了他。但是当珍妮放弃了学业,放弃了信仰,决定和他在一起的时候。却在无意间发现他是一个已经结婚的男人。当镜头给向他的妻子面对来质疑的珍妮,那位女人脸上写满了了然,疲惫而又熟练的告知她是又一个上当受骗的人。珍妮诚恳地向当初顶撞的老师道歉认错,并重新开始自己的梦想与信仰。电影最后的镜头是一个拉远的镜头,是珍妮和一个年轻男孩绕着巴黎城无忧无虑骑自行车的背影,伴着珍妮的旁白,她考上了理想的大学,依靠着自己的努力来到了巴黎生活,和一个年纪相当的男孩子一起奋斗在巴黎生活下去。

在一个需要去依靠吃苦奋斗获得梦中的一切的时候,周边的一切都可以成为诱惑。影片中的珍妮就是没有抵抗住这种捷径下所带来的诱惑,一步错步步错。在应该奋斗,充实自己的时候,不要选择了安逸。或许有些人会像电影当中珍妮的父亲说的那样“本来送你到学校就是想让你以后有更好地生活,既然这个男人能够给你带来现在的这些,那么你退学我们也不反对了。”这实际上也是折射出来一种不正常的择偶观。读得好还是嫁得好,我认为大家各有各的看法,在我看来,只有当我们在成长过程中,不断的通过自身的努力,不断通过修改自身的错误,不断进步,不断去接近理想的自己的时候,当我们在去选择未来的那个人的时候,我们才有可能找到那个所说的嫁得好的人。优秀的人之间总是会相互吸引的,但是长相,年龄也可以是一种优秀,但是凭借着这种优秀来去渴望一段电视剧般的爱情,无疑是一场赌博,代价是宝贵的青春。所以,生活没有捷径,只有当我们足够努力到让自己优秀到发光,我们才有可能获得那份我们梦想中的馈赠,或许是爱情,或许是事业。

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