能不负对方就好,想不负此生真的很难

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2018-05-16 21:02:19

During the preparation of the film, I was very excited. The reason is that 《Later》is one of my favorite songs. I believe the movie will not be bad. The film tells the fate of Jian Qing and Xiao Xiao was entangled and they experienced love, separation, miss and reunion. Ten years ago, Jian Qing and Xiao Xiao met by accident on the train returning home for the Chinese New Year. They shared a common dream and worked together in Beijing. Ten years later, Qinghe Xiaoxiao once again happened to meet again on the plane.

Before I watch this movie, I saw there were so many discussions about it’s values. There are many opposing voices about it. However, after I watched the movie, I don’t think there is anything wrong with it. Most people think that it is wrong for Jian Qing to remember Xiaoxiao ten years later just because he has married and has a son. I think everyone's experience is precious, and every s

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During the preparation of the film, I was very excited. The reason is that 《Later》is one of my favorite songs. I believe the movie will not be bad. The film tells the fate of Jian Qing and Xiao Xiao was entangled and they experienced love, separation, miss and reunion. Ten years ago, Jian Qing and Xiao Xiao met by accident on the train returning home for the Chinese New Year. They shared a common dream and worked together in Beijing. Ten years later, Qinghe Xiaoxiao once again happened to meet again on the plane.

Before I watch this movie, I saw there were so many discussions about it’s values. There are many opposing voices about it. However, after I watched the movie, I don’t think there is anything wrong with it. Most people think that it is wrong for Jian Qing to remember Xiaoxiao ten years later just because he has married and has a son. I think everyone's experience is precious, and every step we take is worth collecting. Though you have already married and had children, no matter what time, your first love will never be forgotten. However, it does not mean that you are not responsible for your family. They are not completely in conflict. You should try your best to take good care of your family and you also have an opportunity to remember your past experience.

Actually, not their love story but Jian Qing’s father touched me. Every time Jian Qing’s father appeared, he could leave a deep impression on me. As he said in this movie, the family can have a reunion dinner, which also depends on the fate. And no one can tell the fate clearly. There are so many uncertainties in our lives. No one can know what will happen next minute. In this case, only we can do is to cherish people encountered and cherish opportunities of family reunion.


因为一直以来就很喜欢《后来》这首歌,所以在最初知道奶茶要拍这部电影的时候,就充满了期待。虽然在去看电影之前,在网上看到了很多批评的声音,但是我还是决定去看一下,哪怕最终会失望,但是更害怕因为自己没去看而感到遗憾。

这部电影主要讲述了见清和晓晓十年前在火车上相遇,两个人一起在北京打拼。他们经历了相爱、分开到最后的重逢,虽然后来他们没能走在一起,但是在内心深处都有彼此的位置。

看完之后,我并不认为见清有什么问题。我们中又有多少人能和初恋走到一起?难道结婚生子之后就没有怀旧的权利了吗?难道说结婚就必须抹掉之前所有的经历吗?所有的记忆都是值得珍藏的,我们每走的一步都是珍贵的。哪怕是结婚了、有了孩子,最初恋爱时的那份美好还是会珍存在每个人的心中。但是这并不意味着你就是对家庭的不负责。尽管如此,你还是要竭尽所能地去照顾好自己的家庭。

其实整个电影中,让我感触最深的就是见清父亲的每次出场。他说,家人的团圆,其实也是缘分。缘分这件事,又有谁能讲清楚呢?“缘分这事,能不负对方就好,想不负此生真的很难。”的确,缘分真的是很奇妙的事情,我们没有办法去控制。所以,我们唯一能做的就是珍惜,珍惜遇到的人,珍惜每一段缘,珍惜当下。哪怕有一天,我们终会失去,哪怕会有遗憾,但是至少,曾经的我真心付出了,这就足够了。

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