Mary and Max 影评

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影片中有那么一段话,讲出了生活的真谛吧!

The reason I forgive you is because you are not perfect. You are imperfect, and so am i. All humans are imperfect, even the man outside my apartment who litters. When i was young, I wanted to be anybody but myself. Dr Bernard Hazelhof said if I was on a desert island then I would have to get used to my own company. Just me and the coconuts. He said I would have to accept myself, my warts and all, And that we don't get to choose our warts. They are a part of us and we have to live with them. We can, however, choose our friends. And I am glad I have chosen you. Dr Bernard Hazelhof also said that Everyone's lives are like a very long sidewalk. Some are well paved. Others, like mine, Have cracks, banana skins and cigarette butts. Your sidewalk is like mine. But probably not as many cracks. Hopefully, one day our sidewalks will meet. And we can share a can of condensed milk. You are my best friend

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影片中有那么一段话,讲出了生活的真谛吧!

The reason I forgive you is because you are not perfect. You are imperfect, and so am i. All humans are imperfect, even the man outside my apartment who litters. When i was young, I wanted to be anybody but myself. Dr Bernard Hazelhof said if I was on a desert island then I would have to get used to my own company. Just me and the coconuts. He said I would have to accept myself, my warts and all, And that we don't get to choose our warts. They are a part of us and we have to live with them. We can, however, choose our friends. And I am glad I have chosen you. Dr Bernard Hazelhof also said that Everyone's lives are like a very long sidewalk. Some are well paved. Others, like mine, Have cracks, banana skins and cigarette butts. Your sidewalk is like mine. But probably not as many cracks. Hopefully, one day our sidewalks will meet. And we can share a can of condensed milk. You are my best friend. you are my only friend.

---------- Mary and Max

这段话也讲出了本部电影想要阐述的核心观点:接受原本的自己。

本来生活在不同的世界、永远都不可能会有任何交集点的两个孤独而又善良的人因为缘分而相遇了。他们有着相同的爱好----吃巧克力、爱同一部动画片,更重要的是他们都渴望一个真正活在自己心底的朋友。两个主角玛丽和马克思代表了两个端点的人群。却存在同样的困惑和孤单。玛丽和马克思的家庭背景和性格都极为相似,相似到他们可以感同身受对方到底是怎样的一个处境!

玛丽,生在一个母亲告诉她她的出生是个意外,父亲也毫无责任感,由于脸上的胎记和家庭温暖的缺失,当受到同龄人的嘲笑时,内心变得越来越脆弱,越来越自卑,根本没有勇气和别人成为朋友。但是内心善良,纯真,是一个爱发问的女孩子。

马克思,一个高智商却无法理解社会潜社交规则的人,他无法理解为什么社会上的人要做出很多对自己本无任何价值的事情。因为无法正常社交,小时候被欺负、没有伴侣。由于过度的敏感只能依靠大量进食来稳定精神,导致自身180高,体重390斤。人生目标和简单,一位挚友,集齐动漫人物,吃不完的巧克力。

首先,得学会爱自己!

玛丽和马克思都一样,他们一直逃避着原本的自己。玛丽认为自己去掉脸上的胎记就能被大家喜欢,马克思认为自己只要不去想其他的东西,一直吃巧克力就会很快乐。可是当玛丽将攒够了的本用以去见马克思的钱花去整容,变美后,当她向他主动打招呼时,却因为对方告诉她鞋上的狗屎而在此哭了。特别是当她和他结婚之后,虽然有一段时间变得极为自信甚至自恋。可当他背叛她时,她却如同的母亲一样,整日酗酒买醉。甚至服下安眠药企图自杀。这其实都是渗入骨髓的不自信,当我们觉得有人爱我们时,会觉得世界五彩斑斓,若非如此,我们就又会自暴自弃。可是,在这世界上,真正能陪伴我们的只有自己啊。真正能爱我们的又只有自己呀。

玛丽角色的设定就是大多数人的写照,毕竟社会资源有限,那些站在金字塔顶端的孩子也只有百分之几罢了。我们从出生就得忍受来自父母的先天缺陷,我们还那么小就得忍受那么多的不美好。来自同龄人的嘲笑和讥讽。我们努力的用自己仅有的温度来保护自己,可发现却抵不过外界寒冷的偷袭。我们渴望拥有好友来与我们并肩作战,但却发现除了自己身边空无一人。我们毫无资源,我们毫无优势,我们毫无方向,我们误打误撞,或许能找到我们一生的事业和远方;或许向马克思一样干了七八份工种却仍然活得浑浑噩噩。直至终老。

影片最后讲述了,社会是不公平的,有的人从一出生就被人铺好了一条很好的路。而有的人却只有一条到处都是缝隙和垃圾的路。但仍然可以快乐且开阔的看这一条路。我们虽然无法决定我们的家庭,但我们可以选择我们的朋友,和那些让你觉得积极阳光向上的人一切走,在途中会融化你身上所有被枷锁的部分。如果时机还没有到来,你的那位朋友还没有到来,请先一个人独自上路。在一个人的途中,你会慢慢接纳自己、原本的自己。这个自己或许包括鼻子不够高,脸不够小,家境很清贫,学历不高,见识不多。突然间,你就接纳了原本的自己,因为你只有你自己也只能接纳自己。即使有那么多不好的地方存在又怎样?至少已经上路了,至少你会知道你期待的那位或那几位人生挚友已经在期待与你相遇的路上了。

接纳自己,而后改变自己。

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