If life breaks for you, the way it would not break for me, if love hunts you, finds you , captures you, will you hold it tight... nurture it , protect it? I hope you will. It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all. But now, with more years, with more time, more perspective, I see things in a slightly new way. So here, my good son, is a father's advice, updated and recalled. It's better to have loved and lost, surely... but try not to lose it at all.