父亲的事后烟

Genio
2018-01-02 21:01:26
抱歉,撸多了,一开始是很猴急的,但耐着性子看了两个多小时,中途倒带了几处。
    第一印象:这书香门第,这开放程度,只可远观。
    那个暖阳煦煦的夏日,有的不仅是躁动的青春,还有中年人的唏嘘和关心,谈笑有鸿儒,这可能是故事能走向happy ending的最重要原因了,Elio的父母无疑是睿智的、超前的,片尾父亲的一番话摘录如下"You had a beautiful friendship. Maybe more than a friendship. And I envy you. In my place, most parents would hope the whole thing goes away, or pray that their sons land on their feet soon enough. But I am not such a parent. In your place, if there is pain, nurse it, and if there is a flame, don't snuff it out, don't be brutal with it. Withdrawal can be a terrible thing when it keeps us awake at night, and watching others forget us sooner than we'd want to be forgotten is no bet¬ter. We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each t

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抱歉,撸多了,一开始是很猴急的,但耐着性子看了两个多小时,中途倒带了几处。
    第一印象:这书香门第,这开放程度,只可远观。
    那个暖阳煦煦的夏日,有的不仅是躁动的青春,还有中年人的唏嘘和关心,谈笑有鸿儒,这可能是故事能走向happy ending的最重要原因了,Elio的父母无疑是睿智的、超前的,片尾父亲的一番话摘录如下"You had a beautiful friendship. Maybe more than a friendship. And I envy you. In my place, most parents would hope the whole thing goes away, or pray that their sons land on their feet soon enough. But I am not such a parent. In your place, if there is pain, nurse it, and if there is a flame, don't snuff it out, don't be brutal with it. Withdrawal can be a terrible thing when it keeps us awake at night, and watching others forget us sooner than we'd want to be forgotten is no bet¬ter. We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel anything—what a waste!"
“How you live your life is your business. But remember, our hearts and our bodies are given to us only once. Most of us can't help but live as though we've got two lives to live, one is the mockup, the other the finished version, and then there are all those versions in between. But there's only one, and before you know it, your heart is worn out, and, as for your body, there comes a point when no one looks at it, much less wants to come near it. ”
    对电影不作道德评判,本就是各人下雪,何况是高于生活的艺术作品。有个小想法,本片会不会是Elio父亲的一场梦呢,事后烟看似潇洒,经历的故事却不常对外讲,Elio的眼泪,你的眼泪,我的眼泪,在感情生活里流的泪,虽能共情,怕也是五味陈杂吧。
    第一段已空四个字符,不怪我。
    以下为臆想‘,光明节可能是特意设置的,本就是为破旧立新而创设的节日,兽人永不为奴!
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