感谢时光赠予的纯净,感谢生命赐予的善良

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2018-01-01 21:15:09
夏晚,溪水,啤酒,舞会,牛皮纸书籍,丢落一地的纸团,影影绰绰的枝桠…多么美好的画面。
喜欢,多么缠绵心动的词汇。

年少对爱与情害怕又好奇的摸索,接触同性/异性身体的渴望,探索自己身体的愉悦,诚实又感性,纯粹又圣洁。

Elio的父亲最后对失意归来的Elio说的那一番话,让人感受到爱的生长力量。东方的感情表达总是含蓄的,既不大胆,也不诚实。与此很高兴的是,Elio的父亲鼓励Elio接受自己的感情,快乐与痛苦都不要忘记。电影是生活的滤镜,纵然有诸多不如意,有些稍纵即逝的抓不住的东西,得以以这样的形式保存下来。

以下是原著中Elio父亲对他说的原话:
You had a beautiful friendship. Maybe more than a friendship. And I envy you. In my place, most parents would hope the whole thing goes away, or pray that their sons land on their feet soon enough. But I am not such a parent. In your place, if there is pain, nurse it, and if there is a flame, don't snuff it out, don't be brutal with it. Withdrawal can be a terrible thing when it keeps us awake at night, and watching others forget us sooner than we'd want to be forgotten is no better. We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel anything—what a waste!“How you live your life is your business. But remember, our hearts and our bodies are given to us only once. Most of us can't help but live as though we've got two lives to live, one is the mockup, the other the finished version, and then there are all those versions in between. But there's only one, and before you know it, your heart is worn out, and, as for your body, there comes a point when no one looks at it, much less wants to come near it.

那是情窦初开的模样,跟同性/异性无关;
也是尝得爱里各种滋味的悸动,敏锐而小心。

当我们长大,成熟,投入模型一般方正规律的工作,那些00后10后就变得令人无比羡艳,他们放肆乖张,勇敢无畏,活力无限,有大把的时光去沐浴阳光,探索新奇,憧憬浪漫与灿烂,发现内心的喜悦。这种大自然赐予的初生活力是最美的,也体现在了对喜欢的追求上,无关利益,不加判断,所行所言都是本能向往,纵然我们也曾拥有,可当时并没有发现这种会随时光逝去的东西竟是那么美好。哪怕谁都要成长,感谢时光赠予的纯净,感谢生命赐予的善良。
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