How did the endings of the film affect you? 悲剧浪漫主义电影的结局教会了我们什么?

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There are three lessons that I draw from this movie.

1. Love or Revenge
If you are Romeo, which will you choose? Of course, we will choose love instead of revenge. Because we think that love is good and revenge is bad. And even an 8-year-old child knows that. But why did Romeo choose revenge in the movie? He chose to kill Tybalt after his friend Mercutio was killed by accident. He chose to revenge is because his emotion blinded him and only revenge can satisfy him at that moment. But soon after he killed Tybalt, he felt regretful and painful. He saw the consequences that he would never be together with Juliet. Thus, what revenge brings us is not peace, but hate and a dreadful life.

Revenge is such a big word for us in modern life, but revenge is everywhere from a quarrel to a fight sometimes killing. It even happens on lovers. For example, when your lover says or does something that you don't feel comfortable about it, what will you do? Most of us will give an ey...
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There are three lessons that I draw from this movie.

1. Love or Revenge
If you are Romeo, which will you choose? Of course, we will choose love instead of revenge. Because we think that love is good and revenge is bad. And even an 8-year-old child knows that. But why did Romeo choose revenge in the movie? He chose to kill Tybalt after his friend Mercutio was killed by accident. He chose to revenge is because his emotion blinded him and only revenge can satisfy him at that moment. But soon after he killed Tybalt, he felt regretful and painful. He saw the consequences that he would never be together with Juliet. Thus, what revenge brings us is not peace, but hate and a dreadful life.

Revenge is such a big word for us in modern life, but revenge is everywhere from a quarrel to a fight sometimes killing. It even happens on lovers. For example, when your lover says or does something that you don't feel comfortable about it, what will you do? Most of us will give an eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth. We want him or her to feel the exact pain and what happens next when your revenge is satisfied? Will your relationship be stronger and better? Of course, it will become worse. Therefore,if you choose love and rationality to sacrifice your present satisfaction, there will be a better result for you.

2. Tragic or Comic
Which do you prefer? And which works better?
When you watch comic movies, you feel satisfied and content. But after that, there will be nothing left. However, tragic movies make you feel pitifully, and that pain hangs there for several days because the plot didn't go as the way we wanted. That's why we always remember Romeo and Juliet, Titanic, West Side Story, Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai.

And after that pain, we start to think. In the movie Little Miss Sunshine, there's a famous line:" all those years he suffered… Those were the best years of his life, cause they made him who he was. All the years he was happy? You know, total waste. Didn't learn a thing. " It's true for everyone,that the most significant lessons we learn in life are rarely received during times of pleasure. Instead, they are born out of pain. So, next time, when you feel painful, feel that pain and be grateful because behind it are the valuable lessons they want you to learn.

3. Image or Relationship
The images they forged in the movies stop us from getting a relationship.
Romeo and Juliet are so perfect. They are good-looking, full of passion, brave and courageous, true to each other. These are the exact qualities we want for our love! And of course, we have other standards. He/She would better be tall and beautiful, have muscles or big bosoms, have a good earning and so on...And in most girl's heart, there is a Mr. Right. Someday, he will find her and live happily together. Sometimes, they will worry about what if the only someone for me doesn't show up? So, they will wait.

Actually, there's no perfect match for you in the word. Everyone is not perfect, so does Kim Soo Hyun. The images in the movies, TV shows and romantic novels are all fabricated. But these images do build up a really high standard for girls to find a boyfriend. That's one of the reasons that more and more young women find it hard to get married.

Did you notice that not a single romantic movie tells us what happens after the hero and heroin get together. The story usually ends like this:"The prince and princess live happily in the end." But they rarely mentions how they can live happily because the play-writers know that a good relationship is hard to maintain and sometimes they themselves do not how to do it. It's not interesting or exciting, and sometimes brutal with fight and quarrel. That's the things we don't want to see. And that results in that when many couples get married and they don't know how to develop and remain the love between each other. When things get worse, they will feel panic and thinks he/she is not the one. So they will choose divorce and find another one to start a new relationship . But that worse part will never end because it's just a part of the relationship.

The things they need is not a new one, but a way to build strong relationships. So, how to find love and develop a good relationship? There are two ways, one is practice. Go out to meet new guys and talk with them. Find a good one and start a relationship instead of just sitting in front of the TV, and waiting for the perfect. Only practice tells you the truth and that experience will help you grow up. The second is theory. We can always find answers in the books. There are two books I want to recommend to you, one is the Art of Loving by Erich Fromm https://book.douban.com/subject/3026879/ and the other is Intimate Relationship by Rowland Miller and Daniel Perlman https://book.douban.com/subject/5952488/

Hope everyone will find their beloved, instead of waiting for the perfect.
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