偏执与热爱

石大大头头儿
2020-01-27 看过

看完电影,久久不能平静。

记录一些令我印象深刻的台词。

1.For the record, Mets wasn't out of tone. You were, Ericson! But he didn't know. And that's bad enough.

#与此相关的还有Fletcher问Andrew能否区分自己的拍子是快了还是拖了。练鼓是这样子,生活也是这样子。从“不知道自己无知”,到“知道自己无知”,就是一种进步。可怕的是,不知道自己的无知与错误。人贵自知,如若在知道自己不正确的基础上,还能知道错在哪里,怎么改,并采取行动,那样更好。提醒自己,每日三省吾身。不是时时刻刻都有外在的参照标准供自己判断的,要学会将重要的标准内化。

2. If you want the fucking part, earn it.

#在Andrew以为自己已经成为核心成员,能参与下一场演出的时候,Fletcher让他证明自己。如果自己想要某个东西(可以是职位,荣誉或者资格),当有人质疑你,说你不行,最好的方式不是用言语辩论,而是用行动证明自己可以,自己值得。没有从天而降的奖赏,机会是自己争取来的。不是很懂“言胜于行”这个词怎么冒出来的。一直坚信take actions非常重要。

3. I'm just gonna lay it out there. This is why I don't think that we shouldn't be together. And I thought about it a lot. And this is what's gonna happen, ok? I'm gonna keep pursuing what I'm pursuing. And because I'm doing that it's gonna take more and more of my time. And I'm not gonna be able to spend so much time with you. And when I do spend time with you, I'll be thinking about drumming. I'll be thinking about Jazz and my charts and all that. And because of that you're gonna start to resent me. And you're gonna tell me to ease up drumming, spend more time with you because you're not feeling importrant. And I'm not gonna be able to do that. And I'll just start to resent you for even asking me to stop drumming. And we'll just start to hate each other. And it's gonna get very... it's gonna be ugly. And so... for those reasons, I'd rather just break it off clean. Cause I wanna be great.

#Andrew提分手时候说的话。我是completely赞同地,感情绝对不是放弃自己追求的理由(此处的追求指人生终极目标),在有感情可能阻碍自己追求步伐的苗头时,就应该适时摒弃。任何事情,除了生命,都不应该成为停止自己追求人生终极目标的理由。(每次看爱乐之城都感觉非常遗憾但又能理解,就是这个原因了。所以在未来谈婚论嫁时,如果对方因为有自己热爱的事情要做而要离开,我一定可以坦然接受。好的感情一定是相互成就的。)另外,谈恋爱真的很耗时间,大把时间不练鼓而恋爱,会很白痴欸。

4. I was there to push people beyond what's expected of them. I believe that is an absolute necessity. Otherwise we're depriving the world the next Louie Armstrong the next Charlie Parker.The truth is, Andrew I never really had a Charlie Parker. But I tried. I actually fucking tried. And that's more than most people ever do. And I'll never apologize for how I tried.

#Andrew在酒吧遇到Fletcher时,Fletcher解释自己之所以那样严格训练乐手的原因。有被打动。Fletcher的确是过于严格,甚至偏执,逼到前乐手抑郁自杀,用言语羞辱或者直接动手打人。在现代文明里,是不尊重人权的。这让我想起小学同学因为做不出一道数学题,被老师羞辱“你是猪吗”。但这二者又截然不同。Fletcher的言行是出于对乐手的激励和对Jazz的狂热。他不需要道歉。

Andrew打鼓时,手磨出血;以及他出了车祸也赶去演奏会现场真的令人触目惊心。试问自己,是无论如何都做不到的。对于优秀又刻苦的人,总会有很自然地敬仰和钦佩之情。对音乐如此偏执地爱,正是一股强大地内生驱力,驱使他不断向前。人类之所以与蝼蚁有区别,也是因为在温饱之外,还有纯粹的、基于热爱和兴趣想追求的目标吧。

这样比较起来,我口中的热爱好像还只是基于一时兴起,实在惭愧。十年甚至三十年后,如若没有取得半点建树,也不能怪任何人。付出有限,又怎能奢望收获太多。

(看到一句话,大意是看完一千部电影后,会发现人生/历史没有什么新奇的事。以后多看电影,有印象深刻的电影继续记录下来。)

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