The book was initially sent to my sister’s house. She asked me what staff she would receive and I answered “Furiously Happy”. She wondered “why are you happy furiously”and was told that it is the name of the book.
I’m just not the type who can control themselves’emotions precisely and I even do not want to learn how to control them. But since I do have questions about characteristics of different people, such as whether the depression of a person is produced by the accumulation of so many bad things or simply due to the gene and environment.
The one and only reason I drop the “control emotion lesson”behind my mind is depression is also an existing form of our emotions. I hope it could flow freely in my mind and I could fully make myself involved in this feeling. It seems like that only little people would agree to the self -torturous way of the respect to the human nature. Besides, it is me, myself who choose to be like that. It is countless that how many times I sit around the table, listen to the bullshit given by some people which are full of formalism and bureaucracy. I have to vigorously suppress the rage and refute inside of me and finally transform them into numb and tranquil. Under the circumstance of that case, the release of the negative emotions is extremely valuable.
Recently I read some papers belong to the category of philosophy by coincident, related researchers draw conclusions with detailed analysis. And specify the obvious principles with convincing examples. On the one hand, it enlarges the amount of the academic vocabularies. On the other hand, it pushes me to reconsider the relationship between science experiments and instinct with born.
Take the depression belongs to negative emotions for example, it could be analyzed from the chemical point of view not simply considering psychological. Besides, the influence it brings to us is not merely current bad feelings, it may also cause some negative influence both to our physical and mental which we can hardly to discover but could be found out by related researchers. Moreover, long-term depression may be hard for people to get out by themselves, which need medicine to assist.
The critical point I would like to declare is even happy feeling not the one and only staff we pursue all our life. Born to be a person of different roles, we have responsibilities for others, which means the opposite aspect of depression could not be simply defined as happy. In other words, only happy everyday is also incomplete. Imagine that a big disaster frustrated you, you began to be self-suspect and doubt the meaning of life, at that time, one person got close to you and said that keep your mind happy is the most important thing in your whole life, that is way too inconsiderate. I really hope it is the sense of responsibility, the love to relative, and the heart not afraid of frustration make you strive again, not the slogan that drop all the glass balls off.